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Find guidance and encouragement through our Collective Wisdom for Complex Kids Community. Dedicated for moms who are raising complex children and are eager to find their way.
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I know how hard it can be to raise a complex kid. To feel alone and continue to seek help for your child, only to feel like no one hears you. I created a free private group for moms just like you—moms looking for support and community. If you want to touch base with other moms who get it and have access to valuable resources and tools to help you and your child thrive, tap the button below to join us.
Are you feeling lost and frustrated? Do you feel like you are reaching out to everyone for help with your child and still not getting anywhere? I’ve been there. Take a moment and book your free clarity session and let’s talk about your complex kid.
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We all want to be great moms
But, when raising complex children, it often feels like we are failing.
We want to do what’s best for our kids, but we can’t seem to find the answers or the support we need. We are overwhelmed and don’t know how to care for our children. We don’t know how to advocate for them!
You might get advice from those who mean well and tell you “They’re just going to grow out of it.” However, your heart tells you differently.
Even the simplest questions feel impossible to answer:
Why are they acting like this?
Do they really have a problem or am I doing something wrong?
Why is nothing working?
Am I doing something wrong?
Where do I go for answers when no one thinks there’s a problem?
Trust me, I have been right where you are. I was the parent who couldn’t take my child to a restaurant because of tantrums. I thought I was a horrible parent and that I just didn’t know how to do it right. I was at my pediatrician’s office weekly trying to understand why my son wasn’t sleeping? Was it reflux? Was it a sleeping disorder? Why wasn’t he talking when the other kids his age were?
In the past 10 years I have been on a journey to find answers for not only my son and my family, but for moms just like you. I have compiled years of research and countless hours on the phone. I developed an eight step process to help you find answers. I am here to support you and help you streamline the process so you don’t have to make the same mistakes I made when I started. I see you! I know what you’re going through.
The 8 Steps to Finding Help
- Focused Priority – A methodology to get you refocused on the solution.
- Selecting the Right Medical Team – Knowing who to go to for each symptom
- Dealing with the School Districts – Value scripts and templates to get the support you need from your child’s school
- State Programs – Be informed on the assistance provided by your state
- Insurance Benefits – The best practices with dealing with insurance companies
- Marriage and Siblings – Learn how to avoid friction and best implement a positive family structure
- Personal Time – Discover easy ways to include self-care in your busy routine
- Celebrate Every Achievement – Impactful, positive reinforcements that will encourage further growth
Moms with complex children that follow these guidelines will have:
1. Connection with other moms
2. Peace of mind
3. Guidance on where to start
4. Tenacity
5. Reprioritization
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Join our community!
I invite you to join me in my community and learn from me. You will learn how to ground yourself and know that you are not the only one in this journey.
I will help you through this process. You will learn how to navigate the system and help your child and your family.
I created this to help moms and dads have a community where they aren’t different, they are welcomed.
About Michelle
Michelle Choairy is a mom of a complex kid. She has been her son’s best advocate and has learned through the years what it takes to get the best care for her child. She is the Founder of Collective Wisdom for Complex Kids, a support group for mothers with children with disabilities. She has a passion for helping families re-evaluate and prioritize their dynamics, along with guiding them from confusion to clarity while raising complex children.
As a bilingual, international keynote speaker, Michelle has spoken hundreds of times. Her empathetic and engaging style has put her in demand as one of the most sought-after advocates and speakers of her time.
Over the last decade, Michelle has worked tirelessly with industry giants such as Apraxia Kids, March of Dimes, and Special Olympics. Drawing from her own experience in finding solutions for her special needs child, she possesses a fervent dedication to uncovering solutions for fellow parents in similar situations. As a Certified Athletic Trainer and Founder of Collective Wisdom for Complex Kids, she has utilized her background in dance and athletic training to coach elementary school children and support families navigating the complexities of raising complex children.
Michelle has raised over $30K for Special Olympics and collected the highest amount for Apraxia Kids in a year. Her impactful speaking engagements have inspired and empowered moms of complex children, sales teams, and medical professionals internationally, from Brazil to the USA.
Through her leadership at Collective Wisdom for Complex Kids, Michelle has created a valuable community where mothers find support, guidance, and understanding.
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Connect with fellow parents facing the same struggles as you in a judgement free safe group. I offer free resources, websites, and tips to help you navigate the system and be your child’s best advocate.
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Unlock Your Child’s Potential with a Free Consultation
Parenting a child with complex needs can be overwhelming and isolating. The journey to find the right resources and strategies to support your child often feels like navigating a maze without a map.
Watching your child struggle without the proper support can be heartbreaking. The frustration of endless research, trial-and-error approaches, and the lack of tailored guidance can leave you feeling helpless and exhausted. You know your child deserves better, but finding the right path forward seems impossible.
We understand your challenges at Wisdom for Complex Kids and are here to help. Sign up for a free one-on-one consultation with Michelle Choairy, an expert in supporting children with complex needs. During this personalized session, we will discuss your child’s unique situation and identify the next steps to access the resources and strategies they need to thrive. Don’t navigate this journey alone—let us guide you towards unlocking your child’s full potential.
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